I too run one of my 4 position kit with a RDIAS like hkg3k. I would say both DPMS or Colt selector with a RDIAS is good to go.
For me out of all the parts between the two kits the Colt sear is the unicorn. Unlike the DPMS sear, which is just a cut down sear, the Colt has its hook. The problem is there is no easy way to reproduce one short of stamping new sheet metal. I have never had one but it looks thin to weld and tough to match the original shape. I don't think a standard sear could be cut to match because the colt selector doesn't use quadrants in line to the markings, with the hook end going past 90 degrees of the selector. see the pictures if that makes sense.
With a Colt selector, unless you have a RDIAS or a Colt sear I am not sure how to make it work. Something needs to limit the rotation of the sear so it moves enough to catch the hammer but not do a full spin. So I don't think just cutting the leg of a sear would work.
Like hkg3k said hammering out and welding a tail on the burst disconnector is simple enough. Just make sure the two disconnectors don't rub each other and that the disconnectors don't catch the hammer when they shouldn't.
Eventually I'll have a few 4 position kits for sale. They will be DPMS pattern custom ambi selectors, welded burst disconnector tails and the rest from 3rd burst kits. But even with disconnectors the Colt selector will be hard to get working without a colt sear so I couldn't help with that.